When in Rome, you will soon notice that it is easy to socialise with Italians and expatriates. But are you aware of the social etiquette that can help you better immerse in the Roman culture?
Don'ts in Rome
Like other places in Italy, there are a few essential social codes you may want to honour when interacting with people for the first time in Rome. Italians are very approachable although they will probably keep a decent distance upon your first meeting. A handshake is usually the appropriate way to greet men and women both. Avoid getting too close to a person or invading their personal space. Upon leaving, Italians will generally greet you with a kiss on both cheeks or a hug, especially if both parties have got on quite well.
In a professional setting ' especially during job interviews - handshakes are required. Use an adequately formal and polite tone to make the best possible impression.
Coffee lovers, beware. Cappuccinos are generally seen as a morning beverage. It is, therefore, better to order them before 11 am or you might just upset the barista. When eating pasta, do not cut your spaghettis but instead roll them around your fork. Asking for more parmesan to sprinkle over seafood dishes is not appropriate. Also, do keep in mind that most restaurants and bars are non-smoking areas. Lighting up your cigarette may lead to a fine.
When visiting religious places like churches, it is a must to cover your shoulders and legs. Shorts and short skirts are to be avoided at all costs. On another hand, it is prohibited to swim in fountains or to throw your trash in them. Food and drink consumption are not allowed in some places like the Trevi Fountain, on the stairs of the Trinity of Monte Rome ' Trinità dei Monti ' or on the Place of Spain. All through the day, guards ensure that visitors abide by the laws and fines are given to those who do not.
Do's in Rome
Making a good impression on Romans will probably be one of your mail social goals. To achieve this, keep in mind that Italians often engage in small talks with strangers at the supermarket, in bars, etc. You can respond with a friendly smile and feel free to speak to them. Chances are your accent will raise their curiosity, and they will probably end up asking about where you are from and the reasons why you have come to Rome.
When shopping at the supermarket, it is common politeness to let people with only one or two articles go through before you - even if you are first in line and especially when you have a trolley or basket full of products.
Also, please give your seat to the elderly, pregnant women and children in public transport. Such gestures tend to be very much appreciated by Italians.
If you are not yet very fluent in Italian, do not feel afraid to speak the language anyway. Romans will not mock you and will undoubtedly tell you that even some Italians do not speak the language correctly. They will correct you in a gentle way when you are wrong, will compliment you on your progress and will even admire you for learning their language so fast.
Good to know:
Always keep some cash on you as some stores do not accept card payment.
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