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Mark Spahr

@mspatique

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American looking for information about Vietnam

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American

Lives in Tampa bay

Registration: 15 November 2009

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Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
9 years ago
Christine

Your experience of culture shock in Vietnam by Christine

Hi, Living in a foreign country implies to discover its culture, to learn and master the cultural codes. How did you deal with that? Share with us your culture shock stories where you experienced a funny or awkward moment in Vietnam. What ...

Mark Spahr

I have another experience to share . My wife and I were at a party for the anniversary of the dead . Every year , this wonderful lady has this party for a member of her family and we attend . The men eat and drink and drink while the women do all of ... Read More

Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
9 years ago
Christine

Your experience of culture shock in Vietnam by Christine

Hi, Living in a foreign country implies to discover its culture, to learn and master the cultural codes. How did you deal with that? Share with us your culture shock stories where you experienced a funny or awkward moment in Vietnam. What ...

Mark Spahr

I like your thoughts . Very nice post and appreciated .. and good suggestion for the Aussies who seem to regard the Vietnamese as their children , much like the French . Read More

Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
9 years ago
Christine

Your experience of culture shock in Vietnam by Christine

Hi, Living in a foreign country implies to discover its culture, to learn and master the cultural codes. How did you deal with that? Share with us your culture shock stories where you experienced a funny or awkward moment in Vietnam. What ...

Mark Spahr

I see you didn't disagree with my # 1 . Obviously you're not getting kissed much ! LOL ! I can't wait to get back to Lai Thieu . Just built a nice little house there with a private room and bath for my wife and I . I miss VietNam and my ... Read More

Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
9 years ago
Christine

Your experience of culture shock in Vietnam by Christine

Hi, Living in a foreign country implies to discover its culture, to learn and master the cultural codes. How did you deal with that? Share with us your culture shock stories where you experienced a funny or awkward moment in Vietnam. What ...

Mark Spahr

Hello , I have been married to a Vietnamese lady for 8 years now . Here are a few very basic but important things I have learned about Vietnamese culture . #1. Do not hug or kiss anyone unless you know in advance it is ok to do so. Hugging and ... Read More

Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
10 years ago
Jquinoq

Time to run away? by Jquinoq

:/ so, I met this girl 34 years old , started dating her ( seriously) within a week her family has me at a Buddha temple talking about wedding dates with a " master" . Omg. I just met her WTF is the family thinking after two week " marriage" her ...

Mark Spahr

If you like her and think she would make a good wife , AND you want to get married , continue dating her and spend more time getting to know the family . I was 55 and married a 33 year old girl from VN about 6 1/2 years ago. I spent lots of time ... Read More

Mark Spahr
mspatique replied to a thread
11 years ago
NashCat

Monthly support to Vietnamese GF a mistake? by NashCat

Met a great Vietnamese girl a year ago online, went to Vietnam for 3 months to meet her. Everything was great. She was beautiful and nice. Not a bar or party girl, and we hit it off the moment we met. She had a restaurant at the time, but, because ...

Mark Spahr

My girlfriend never asked me for money. Met her my first trip to HCMC . Traveled back and forth to get to know her and the family and we talked on the internet when I was in the States. She is now my wife of 6 years and we live in Florida . She goes ... Read More