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Hello elimay.  So nice to hear from you again and all things positive!  Your friend certainly does have a guardian angel!

I can't believe how quick July has come around, it seemed like an age since you first told us the situation with your friend.

Well let's all hope and pray that he continues to remain stable until he gets home and receives treatment.

God bless
Sandra x

Hi ..yes the time has passed quick to us but to my friend he told me each day is so slow ..however its 3 months ago since I posted here and only 2 weeks left and he will be back to his homeland ....I do hope things improve over there, its not looking to good at the moment.

I have to think positive and pray for my friend for his safe returne to Egypt ...my prays and peace to all ... a extra pray for Wayan in Bali .. x

Love Blessing Eli xxx

Yes elimay.. i can only imagine the torture your poor friend must be going through.. each day must seem endless. But now hopefully their is light at the end of the tunnel.

God bless
Sandra

Just 7 days to go and my friend will be flying back to Cairo ,the days have been long and hard for him and spiritual in may ways .... do you guys remember the taxi I told you about!and he would sell it to be able to pay for the operation for this cancer !

Well he told me last week his dying wish is to see me once again and he will send E ticket to me to go to Cairo as soon as he sells the taxi .... I have told him he must get this operation or give the money to his kids ,but he wont hear of it when I say this to him .He want to see me and asked me to respect his wishes !

what a guy !! 3month or waiting to go back to Cairo to see his family and get this op and now he says he wants me to have a ticket to go and be with him .... Yeah he is a guy in a million and I should respect what he is asking ,but how can I when he has 3 kids ... Please has anyone got anything to say about this new situation I find myself in >>

Any would be welcome ...

dont touch it with a barge pole - u will be one of many falling for this sad stupid trap. I live here and i can assure you that truth is an unknown commodity amongst the vast majority let alone egyptian men with english women because we are too kind and too stupid.

and yes, i do have the right to say this here. English people have honesty almost as second nature - their way of doing things here is to do whatever necessary to get what they want so they dont see it as lying - it is just surviving.

Yes janayuseph

you can say whatever you like ...and I have no problem you doing this ,but perhaps it would have helped if maybe you read a all my post on here or maybe you did and still assume we are all the same ...not all women are stupid as you think ,I am not one of these so called women ... perhaps you yourself have been taken in by some man ! (with this sad stupid trap) i have no idea or do I wish to know ...
please don't judge every Egyptian man or English women as being like you assume to be ...

Have a nice evening ..Happy Ramadan

Thank you Sandra

I have sent you a privet message ...it explains a lot more about the situation  that I don't want to make public ... thank you for your input ..

Blessings ...x
Take care

Yes you are right,,,May God bless you

Maybe you can tell him to have the operation first, and then you will see...

Hiya EliMay

I have just read your post from the very beginning....wow. What a trooper!! in fact you are both troopers.

You think that your friend has a guardian angel? Eli, my love, it is you!!

As mentioned by Sandra, Mo and several others - if every one had a heart as big as yours the world would be a fantastic place to be, honestly.

I can understand both sides of the fence: you are frustrated and he is scared. A very difficult mixture at the best of times. I can also understand the position that your friend is in. He wants to tell his family about his illness face-to-face, not over the phone - imagine him hearing the cries of despair from his nearest and dearest and him not being able to comfort them in person - that would be torture to both parties. Please do not think him selfish, he is being selfless.

Every one is praying for you both, with this many wishes he will be home and comfortable before you know it. Trust in your own God, and I will ask my angels to assist too, but as you know the good die young and if your does pass over remember what you said previously: everything happens for a reason.

Elimay, my heart goes out to you and your friend,

With love, Chuckles. xx

She is a kind person,0 MY GOD,,,sounds great.

i judge by what I see and the culture which I deeply understand. Living here, marrying them and having only Egyptian friends helps understand the culture a lot.I love Egypt and Egyptians but I know them very well. God bless.

ps I never said you were stupid - I merely stated the simple fact of Arab culture - kindness of foreigners is deemed as stupidity - they operate under a different currency.

elimay wrote:

Yes janayuseph

you can say whatever you like ...and I have no problem you doing this ,but perhaps it would have helped if maybe you read a all my post on here or maybe you did and still assume we are all the same ...not all women are stupid as you think ,I am not one of these so called women ... perhaps you yourself have been taken in by some man ! (with this sad stupid trap) i have no idea or do I wish to know ...
please don't judge every Egyptian man or English women as being like you assume to be ...

Have a nice evening ..Happy Ramadan

what I find interesting is I sought to help you and you assume I also am taken in and a fool. I merely wanted to shed some light on the vast majority of women who do not understand their culture and how they are and how they think and yes I do mean most. Don't thank me for trying to protect you though or anyone thinking the same - I might be wrong and thats ok but thousands and thousands of others might have been glad that I took the time to write as many many many have been duped happy spending baby - be aware thought that most have more flats than you, more money than you and buy properties for their family everywhere whilst claiming they have no cash. Again God bless you as you seek to do what is right - there is no harm in that - just wanted to put a word of warning out - or did it hit a nerve sweetie.

Janayousef..

...first I do not have any houses to sell .. no one has ever asked me for anything ... second .you have not or ever will touch on any nerve of mine but you seem very defensive ...

I am a women of the world I am not and never have been deluded with sweet words from any man being here in the uk or abroad ..im to old in the teeth for all that ...

Don't you think I have heard it all before ..normally from women who have been tricked.

All I do is help as much as I can when I have a friend . it could be you who needs help one day, and if I was your friend I would do the same for you.

I know as much as you about some men who take the women for all they can, flats money visa whatever ! not only in Arab countries .hear in the Uk it happens all the time. 

If you feel your helping other women on the forum feel free to do so ... maybe you could open up another topic on the subject.

Have a good day .. Sweety !

Good Afternoon to you Chuckles.

Thank you for your message and your prayers ,I am just a normal women.I am no one special and I am certainly no pushover as some people seem to think I am , however it has been harder for him and thank god he will leave Bali on Sunday 21 July and be in Cairo 23.long time flying time but cheaper airfare.

I will fly to Cairo as soon as I can ... He is hoping to sell his taxi and send me an E ticket ..he thinks his cancer is to far gone now to have operation or even make it back to Cairo ,hope to god he will make it .. its his last wish to see me again. I can pay for my own ticket but he insist he buys it if he sell taxi ..if he don't sell it I wont be going .. his request his wishes .. Sad I know but I have always respected and excepted his ways and culture. as he has mine in may ways .. 

We will see what happens about the operation !! I am hopping he will change his mind once he talks with his family.I have had some wonderful information from people off here which I have sent on to him,

Your right ,he didn't want to call his sisters or text them with such bad news .but as it has been said on here sometimes its the way Egyptian men are.

thank you for your kindness and prayer ... Eli x

you have a wonderful heart....yesssss

you right scammers are all around the globe.

Of course Ash scammers are all around the world .

I don't like to think that some people think it is only Arab countries when it is clearly not.

Only last week I heard of a women scamming a man of all his money and his home some have no shame and some are professional scammers it works both ways !not only man against women.

Nice evening to you and happy Ramadan ..

Eli my Dear,,,i agree with you 100%,,happy Ramadan,,hope we meet soon in Cairo.

Inshallah Ash if I come to cairo .you can buy me tea ..lol

hope you get to met her Ash and you have a good time! you can never have too many friends in life!