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There was no doubt a feeling of loss due to the breakdown of the relationship.? Now it must be accepted that the relationship with any children the of that relationship will also be lost.

If they play the emotional game they will be played. It's never ending. Have seen it happen too many times.

They have changed the law in when a child can elect to live with whom they wish to 7 from 9. Up until the. It is a real crap shot if you can enforce anything. There is bailiff you can hire to go with you to document refusals etc. But for some the cost might be steep, in that it costs 5m vnd each trip they go with you. They report back to the judge.

@mac68

Perhaps the oprative word in your missive is "civility". In a civilalized society where ther is also some rule of law, yes. But none of that applies her. Indeed, there is a certain segment of women here that have motives other then happy family life. Some enter marriage just to have a child. That and many other reason apart from a happy family. And no paying support does not matter.....your not ever going to see the child again. Hard to apply Western thinking in some countries.

- @Diazo

@mac68

Perhaps the oprative word in your missive is "civility". In a civilalized society where ther is also some rule of law, yes. But none of that applies her. Indeed, there is a certain segment of women here that have motives other then happy family life. Some enter marriage just to have a child. That and many other reason apart from a happy family. And no paying support does not matter.....your not ever going to see the child again. Hard to apply Western thinking in some countries.

- @Diazo

蔼鲍比77 I called Embassy,they requested for email, email no replying, i waiting my Interim custody and flights over there directly Face them to asking nore information for me. Anyway,i know that's is worth thing to do more for my daughter. Thank for your reply

@Mac68 i know about it, but they education, culture,environment,family all teached the same way, facing problems just hiding and ran aways, i always wanna solve every problems between us, but not even have a chance for it, now, I just can doing everything what i can for my daughter, i Will try more solutions to taken back my daughter, anyway, thanks for your reply

蔼重氮 same ways, if my daughter taken education at Vietnam, she will learn about the same culture and future just liked them, that's what's i worry, i tried to hiring lawyer at there, to verdict my country courts orders, after that, need to finding the locals department or someone there to helping me taken back my daughter, too many liars there, some requested 8-15k in USD, the lawyer there also gives me 3 different solutions for law of Vietnam, but after I check more from information, the lawyer there was can't sure everything about the cases, they're just wanna earned my money, i feeling even i get the legal documents from government Vietnam, also Will found another difficult problems for my daughter. That's is the worse thing for us

@Diazo meaning i have no more chance for taken my daughter back with me? That's bad new for me, or your meaning them was liars? I always try by legal ways for taken my daughter back. I Keep trying my best.

蔼重氮 for me, i been working overseas about 2 years for covid moment, can't stand beside her to settle everything with them, maybe she's feel stressed to living here, i feel so sorry to my spouse and daughter, but when I came back to home, she lie me and ran aways back to Vietnam, I know it's my mistake to not taken action earlier for stopping them ran out from my country, i thought she's just need some time to calm down, but after that, I can't saw my daughter about half year, even in social media or any other way, i tried many solutions for beg her back with me. Anyway, I know she was listen from her's family, the culture and environment of there, never considered for my daughter, as a Malaysian, can't even go school easier like Vietnamese, worse thing for me, I can't do anything for them, if i agree to change my daughter to Vietnamese, I lost her forever, I keep move forward to doing everything for my daughter, but for my spouse, she's adult already, i respect what her's chosen, I been cried enough from last few months, now doing everything for taken back my daughter to given her better education,life,environment. Won't let her grow up like her's mother, not study finish the primary school, working at Very young age, with both grand parents not working at all. Always tried dig everything from my side, i never given them more than normal spending as normal life, i think that's why they encourage my spouse left me, now they told everyone at there, I used violence to my spouse, becomes everyone around there was no believe me. Anyway , I will flying over there to tried more and find chance to taken back my daughter, thanks for your suggestions.

@Diazo she used fake signature to pass the immigration, they was hiding my daughter passport also, I asked embassy of Vietnam, i can apply a temporary passport to come back my country, based on my daughter was Malaysian and i am her biological father with original birth certificate, immigration is not reasonable to Block me by logical thinking. i need taken back my daughter from them first. She's have too many places for hiding. I really need police station to help me to find out, foreign need report all address with passport to police station, so i must need the legal documents for it, language was a big problems for me also, at her's hometown tay ninh far about 100km from hcm, I gone many time, the local area is can't be communicate by English or Chinese, even the government departments. I think i need ip to found my daughter out also, after all planning, the police and government officer is the difficult problems from my sides, seen embassy also avoid to replying my emails, I think they Will not have solutions for solve my problems. After all, i understood this situation was very worst thing for all my planning. But I can't just do nothing to let it gone from my mind. The country continues to develop but does not make any progress in legal responsibility. Many years gone, I never found any success cases except paid for redemption Child from spouse. But my spouse no required any payment from my side, don't know she wanna raised the value then asked or other thinking.