We thought we would make lots of friends (we had a large group of friends at home) when we moved. Alas it's not to be. It seems people are already in their cliques, and there's no room for anyone new.
We have spent many hours pondering this problem. I think if we had kids at school, or we worked, it would give us a better opportunity to meet people.
Because we love Vanuatu, we will stay, but it does get very lonely.