Hi Gilbert,
Thank you so much for responding!
I'm sorry to hear about you and your wife's diagnoses, however. Both MS and RA are difficult to live with. I know that great strides have been made with RA and I'm glad to hear that your wife is getting treatment. Without aggressive treatment (meaning medication) at the early stages, it can get much worse very quickly. I hope that similar strides have been made in the treatment of MS.
Re getting SSDI; it's not easy but it is doable. I was lucky (ha); given that I have so many different disabilities I had a lot of specialists who could vouch for me. The first time I tried it on my own, however, I didn't get it. I then hired a lawyer (who takes 40% of your retroactive check using whatever the judge comes up with for that date) the second time around and was approved.
There's virtually no way to know how to do it yourself at the beginning, however. There's a specific form that your doctor needs to fill out and the questions ask how long you're able to stand, walk and sit, among other things. If I recall correctly, there are questions about how long you can work at a stretch, maybe how much pain you're in, how many days you are unable to do anything...things like that.)
A lawyer will tell you exactly how it must be filled out, mainly the doctor can't just check the worst box throughout because that will look 'suspicious'. I had to give my specialists cheat sheets b/c they couldn't know that I could only walk so far or sit or stand for only, say, 5, minutes. Any paperwork you have, for example, test results, imaging, blood tests, etc., etc. need to be included. As does your work history before and after disability. It's better if you've already had to stop working ('better' being a very relative term, of course.)Â In my case my self-employed tax returns showed a steep decline.
If I remember correctly, the judge put most stock in my back surgeon's and my rheumatologist's paperwork. In your case, RA and MS are both look very...well, good...on paper, although it's really that they look and are "bad". Also the longer you've been sick, the 'better', All of my paperwork is in storage so I can't give you the form name and number but maybe you can root around online and find something that lists the forms that are needed. If they're the same or similar to mine, I'd be happy to help with the details. (A person becomes quite well versed with the process after awhile, oy.) Or you might just want to hire a lawyer for your first time out. S/he will tell you pretty quickly what your chances are. Depending on what details you want to share, I could give you an estimate, too, but that's entirely up to you =}
I haven't received any other responses to my thread and I'd definitely like to keep in touch! My email address is xxx or you can text me at...oops, this is an open forum, if you don't mind emailing I can give you that #. Can you tell me a little about what you've found out so far? Unfortunately this screen won't let me refer to your post but I'd very much like to hear about the town/city you mention as well as any other details you've discovered. I do like this site; it's very welcoming. Although there isn't much info for folks like us =}
Take care,
Kelly
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