I totally hear you on this. My mum was Mauritian and i would go back every December for a month. I stopped going when i was 30 after my mum died and recently went back 3 years ago..... my god in that short space of time have things changed.... i think changed for the worse, its becoming too over developed, yet still with out some of the key infrastructure needed. I recently looked back at some old photos.... from early 2000 i must add and wow such a difference! Alot of my cousins have gone to work abroad and love it, and will only come back to Mauritius now for a holiday. They know of the hardship that the country was not so long ago and escaped, are earning better money and having a happier and easy life. I am always tempted to come and live and only this week i have been reaching out to so many people that have made the jump. The people i should have talked to was my family. When i did, they said stay where you are, make as much money as you can and come home for holidays. Living here is different, there is an underlying struggle. It is a happy island and people are great and its all paradise etc. What you have to remember that everybody's stories are different, and everyones motives for going are unique. But please dont let the islands beauty and postcard image in any way sway your decision. the island is rapidly becoming more European, the attitude also. I was shocked by alot of culture and tradition changes, for example its quiet normal for very early teen pregnancies... where only 10 years ago this would be highly frowned upon, the attitude of the young has changed and there inst that level of respect and tradition any more. (this is just an example by the way, there are many more things i could discuss) i made my decision this week that i would work, build my home in Mauritius and my business here and travel twice a year for a long family holiday.... i dont commit fully i can give or take and just fly back when it all gets frustrating, (which can often be about the 3rd week in with my huge family hahaha). I love Mauritius and proud of it and it is my heart and a long term goal. If you are scared, perhaps you shouldn't commit to it fully and go and trial it out instead. Go on more long holidays. I got a job for CMT and could have started in December, however i was scared and stepped back. There are many job opportunities in Mauritius so dont worry if you dont take the job you've been offered, there will be many more occasions, its best that you try and adapt to the culture, otherwise you could be unhappy and settling for the wrong reasons.