Hi everyone,
Unfortunately people I know keep mentioning how dangerous they think it is in Mexico. Is it safe to live in a single family home or a condo. I prefer single family. I'm looking to move to the Caribbean side or the gulf. Wondering which is better. I'm hoping for ocean front. I'm looking for lots of expats as I don't speak any Spanish yet and I'm aweful with languages.I'm also very social and looking for a sense of community and to making new friends.I have two little dogs and want them to be safe. Hoping you can get good satelite service here, and wondering are our tvs compatible. I don't enjoy high humidity or mosquitoes so which coast would be better. Which coast is less expensive and why.I also worry about hurricanes. Any advise would be so much appreciated.
Welcome to the Mexico forum on Expat..com
Reading your questions, it would appear that you've never spent much if any time in Mexico, is that correct?
I would recommend that you arrange an extended trip to one of the more secure cities in Mexico, staying in secure accommodations, and begin venturing forth on secure day trips to explore the surrounding areas.
Because only you can decide what level of safety is good enough.
Just remember that a sense of safety is due in large part to your own feelings and fears.
So if you plan to travel down here to Mexico without any sense of the language, that will almost certainly contribute to a sense of fear when you don't understand what people are saying around you and you aren't able to ask them questions easily.
This is not meant to be a judgment, but you seem to be describing a desire to live within an Expat bubble.
You can certainly do that, but you'll find that your cost of living will exponentially increase the more you choose to only live around other expats in controlled housing situations, such as gated condo developments.
In order to feel really safe and be able to survive well, you'll need to be hiring someone else to do your shopping for you, or hire a private driver who will also accompany you when you shop and act as a translator and quasi bodyguard.
By the time you end up paying for premium housing and daily domestic help and transportation assistance, the cost of living advantage is going to quickly disappear.
But if your prime desire is to avoid cold Canadian winters, and you have enough personal wealth/income to afford it, then you should be able to carve out a way of life that's as safe (if not safer) than where you live.