Sex with locals, std's and the law page 2 - Ho Chi Minh City forum

worried man · 2013-03-29T06:09:07+01:00

Hello there Im a man from the UK living in hcmc. Ive been here about 9 months, when I first arrived I got friendly with this spanish guy and his vietnamese wife, through the wife I met her niece and she seemed nice had a few dates and then we had sex, then the morning after she started asking for money because she came in a taxi to see me and her friends, I thought ok so gave her some then she wanted more as she had lost out on work, i realised maybe she was a hooker, we used a condom once then done it once more without as we ran out. So a few months later i start seeing a girl, we date for 3-4 months and then my friend said this girl has been known to be a hooker so this made me worried as someone else had seen her sitting with old men. Another friend told me I should get tested, I do and I have fucking syphillis :( I told the girl ive been seeing obviously she has it too so we get to the hospital and get our course of injections so hopefully that is it. But im working last week before my final injection, go for a coffee and this vietnamese guy starts speaking to me, know how it is a lot of them are very friendly, hes asking where I live what I do, fairly normal conversation and he says will you go see your girlfriend after work, I say no because the week before she said we should just be friends but I cant explain this to him as he has to go. So after work I go to the hospital for our final injection, meet the girl and im waiting and I swear I thought I saw the same guy, im maybe being paranoid but its funny seeing him outside my work hes asking questions and then I see him again. As I say im hoping im being paranoid but what if the hospital has told authorities about our problem and the gestapo are tailing me, paranoid I know just I was sure it was the same guy in the hospital. Im trying to rationalise it by thinking if the police wanted me they would porbably easily come and get me but Ive done nothing wrong just been unlucky but I do know technically people arent supposed to have sex without marriage, share rooms etc. Im just wondering anyone any thoughts or insights into this, am I just being paranoid, maybe it wasnt the same guy, or maybe it was the same guy but just a coincidence or maybe the authorities are tailing me?