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MausumiRay wrote:

How we can identify our true life partner?

Hello Mausumi,

Welcome to Expat-Blog.
No one can be able to give a perfect answer for this because the world is full of thought differences,each person has his/her own way of defining  so its better to know what you are looking in your life partner according to that if you find someone fit can be your true life partner...but this also is assumption not the actual what you are searching....basically to whom you love and who also loves you can be the true life partner if you understand...rest upto you...

Regards,
anil

That is very hard to answer as it is very much an individual choice.
Peoples tastes and ideas of what constitutes an ideal partner are very different.
Choice could be based on ethnicity, religion, beauty, culture, rich, poor, ideals, education.
Does the person make you happy when you are in their presence. 
Are you comfortable and relaxed with them.
Do you agree and disagree on a variety of subjects.
Do you both want children.

I could go on but what I am saying is that it is an individual choice made on whatever criteria you use to make that choice.

thanks a lot for sharing your views

When it is difficult to find her easily, you better try some one who is having the most qualities can be admired by you. Later, you try to give a 'like' to his other qualities not appreciated by you very much. Then for your surprise, you will start to think... "This is my true life partner!"... if  he too feels the same way... try to start a life together. But if you still feel some "pending" situations dont waste your time any more. Time is not a thing to be wasted
.

hmmm

MausumiRay wrote:

hmmm

What happened you didn't say anything just a hmmm

aryavrat wrote:

MausumiRay wrote:

hmmm

What happened you didn't say anything just a hmmm

May be she doesn't agree with me Anil

I agreed ... that's why I told "hmmm"

That's nice and i think your doubt on life partner have some what clear....all the best to you and hope one day you will get the one who you are searching....

Regards,
Anil

Many thanks
many thanks to all friends

I don't know. But I think when you find your partner, you will feel that your choice was correct.
Good luck in your search!!

Okay...pray for me...many thanks

If he is still there when you die then he was it.

But by then I am lost...I am no longer there to understand

Hello Anil,
yup u r right its very difficult to find a true life partner.And some lucky couple could be like that they love each other but mostly one sided love is unsucessful...and the one who loves u uou dont love him and to whom u love he or she already in love with someone else....and a person who is really looking for a real soul mate they dont feel joy in other fake relations....and sometimes you really feel that better to be alone instead of with the wrong one.....may be some where in the world our perfect soul mate is looking for us....

If you consider the US divorce rate is higher than 50% and the number of unhappy relationships surely exceeding that number; looking for a life partner is a bit of an oxymoron. Instead of thinking of the distant future, look for current compatibility in values and jigsaw-piece fitting needs. If it lasts a lifetime, good for you! I don't think human couples were designed to stay together for much more than nine or ten years. The physiology of we bipeds was designed to promote propagation. There is more than one person out there you can love; find one and continue as long as you are happy.

Hello Hina Khan,

Welcome to ½ûÂþÌìÌÃ.
Yes it is very difficult to find out but it all depends on individual ...how he/she is thinking and what he /she is looking.

Regards,
ANIL

Thanks for the opinion...I think that's the most practical and scientific explanation you have given.

Many thanks.

such a difficult question......i cant identify my real life partner...

aryavrat wrote:

Hello Hina Khan,

Welcome to ½ûÂþÌìÌÃ.
Yes it is very difficult to find out but it all depends on individual ...how he/she is thinking and what he /she is looking.

Regards,
ANIL

Ha, ha, Anil, 
You basically are saying that tomorrow it will be sunshine or it will be raining. 

MausumiRay wrote:

How we can identify our true life partner?

Hi there,

It just happens.
You get a sensation of deja vu.
It's just magic.
You have a feeling that you know the person you are speaking to for a long, long time.
It's like you wake up from a nightmare.
Everything seems to fall in place effortlessly like pieces of domino.
It is so beautiful that it hurts.
You and the new person feel sorry your meeting each other did not happen much earlier.
The two of you take each other's words out from each other's mouth.
The person says something and you immediately continue on the same line of thought, and vice-versa.
You do not recognize yourself for suddenly being able to talk and talk and talk.
It's again, but this time it feels so right ....

thank you so much Mr, John...by your comment it seems you are very romantic person and you have met your gal of dream...so you are the luckiest person in the world.

Congratulations for having a life full of love 

well said.....may be i think differently.

hina khan wrote:

well said.....may be i think differently.

If you feel you can share might be some one else also will get some idea from your thought....