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dan523 · 2017-12-25T22:34:12+01:00

I've read several posts about this topic but finally I had the urge to traveled to Santo Domingo for 5 days last month. I did met a couple women online Dominicancupid and I felt no harm if meeting someone when traveling. So anyway I'm 44 and the two are 23 and 32 so I just didn't feel the 23 was going to work even she is educated she just received her degree in dentistry so I only spent a dinner with her. The other one is more mature our age difference isn't as big. So we spent alot of time together going to dinner and walk in Zona Colonial. She invited me to go see her mom and her house on the 3rd day so she showed me everything. She was greeting me at the airport when I arrived and also went with me to the airport to say goodbye, she bought a little wristband as a gift for me. She seemed caring I always have dry lips she bought me a lip gloss. So this sounds good right she seem like a mature wife material. On the potential red flags things, she asked for bus fare to see me even it's only 100 peso. And needed 900 peso to buy textbook for university. It was the 3rd day we been together it wasn't much I was fine but I read some of your posts and other places is it normal that women expect men to provide money when dating? I am not talking about paying for dinner and expense but to help them in every day life? She also told me about her old cellphone and when she asked to go to stores, I was kind of naive thought she mean to pay with her money. I didn't buy it I told her I don't have enough to travel. She said it's okay she can wait another time. So that was last month I spent in Santo Domingo, we've been talking and video chatting on whatsapp daily. She never really brought up anything regarding money. Yesterday she got sick and on video she did look like she has a flu. She told me she spent her money on medicine and nebulizer (spell). But she needs 2 more nebulizers it costs 1800 peso. I didn't want to but told her if she really need the money I will send thru Western Union. But it was Xmas it is closed she said she can wait for Tuesday. So I just become more curious I can be second guessing or paranoid for no reason but my head is thinking all these posts about women asking money, sometimes they don't do that at the beginning so they make you feel trapped after you know them for a while. Can this be in my situation? She's obvious not the type that ask me right off the bet. I told her I want to see the book she bought using my money, she was offended and told me if I don't trust her don't buy her cellphone or send money. We argued a bit on whatsapp, she sent the picture of the book and now we are not talking today. I should probably take a break. I just need to know a girl like her can be church going and genuine but is it true that they just want men to take care of them so in a way I am being too analytical?

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thecolonelBanned29 December 2017 21:28:46

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Yes, this is why the cueros...hookers...deserve more respect than the chapeadoras, since the former are prepared to offer a service, unlike the latter, as in my examples.

dan523 New member

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dan523New member29 December 2017 23:04:55

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I took tinker advice and taking a break now. will let you know what happens soon

planner Dominican Republic Expert

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plannerDominican Republic Expert30 December 2017 00:14:44

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And on that note, we have beat this to death.

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