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DO YOU THINK LOVE IS TO BE GIVEN OR LENT?

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spirito_gustamante

dear all,

what you think, guys, is love to be given or lent?

if love is to be given, you cannot take it back when you had given it to someone ...

if love is to be lent, you can take it back when you think you do not love him/her anymore. and he/she cannot complains you when you want your love back ...

happy valentine ^^

Wilson

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right :)

spirito_gustamante

wilson_derry wrote:

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right :)


dear wilson,

that's realy beautiful but its hard to do it .. even sometime i dun hv trust, on him or myself ..

Fred

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)

Primadonna

Love is in many shapes, you can not only feel love for a person but for things or subjects as well: music, art,nculture, history, a good cup coffee or tea etc.

Love is a feeling, emotion so you can not lent it or take it back, it will die when this emotion is not cherished.

Dita Mignonesia

And how to give back the love? And how do you keep someone's love when the person is already gone? I don't get this sorry. :unsure

HaileyinHongKong

spirito_gustamante wrote:

if love is to be lent, you can take it back when you think you do not love him/her anymore. and he/she cannot complains you when you want your love back ...


That's not love.

HaileyinHongKong

mas fred wrote:

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)


30 minutes?  Somehow I knew you were a Quick Draw McGraw.

spirito_gustamante

mas fred wrote:

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)


hahhaha... dun dare to do it !! n never !!

spirito_gustamante

Primadonna wrote:

Love is in many shapes, you can not only feel love for a person but for things or subjects as well: music, art,nculture, history, a good cup coffee or tea etc.

Love is a feeling, emotion so you can not lent it or take it back, it will die when this emotion is not cherished.


yeah! die is what happen when love is not cherished ...

spirito_gustamante

Dita Mignonesia wrote:

And how to give back the love? And how do you keep someone's love when the person is already gone? I don't get this sorry. :unsure


hikzz.. its actualy just cross my mind.. so dun too much bother with my crazy mind ^^

to give back his love means to let him go .. to keep his love means loving him til u die ^^

maybe...

spirito_gustamante

HaileyinHongKong wrote:
spirito_gustamante wrote:

if love is to be lent, you can take it back when you think you do not love him/her anymore. and he/she cannot complains you when you want your love back ...


That's not love.


wht u think of love?

James

True love, really true love is always given; and it is given freely.

Love is not ours to have, we can't take it, we can't borrow it or buy or sell it. You can't give it back if you don't want it anymore, so best think about it before you ever accept it.

Therefore, once given it no longer is ours so we can't take it back either.

spirito_gustamante

wjwoodward wrote:

True love, really true love is always given; and it is given freely.

Love is not ours to have, we can't take it, we can't borrow it or buy or sell it. You can't give it back if you don't want it anymore, so best think about it before you ever accept it.

Therefore, once given it no longer is ours so we can't take it back either.


Your words are always beautiful.. U are rite.. But tell me what d pain that i felt when he broke my hearts?

Just wana knw ur opinion ^^

hELLnoi

spirito_gustamante wrote:
wjwoodward wrote:

True love, really true love is always given; and it is given freely.
Love is not ours to have, we can't take it, we can't borrow it or buy or sell it. You can't give it back if you don't want it anymore, so best think about it before you ever accept it.

Therefore, once given it no longer is ours so we can't take it back either.


Your words are always beautiful.. U are rite.. But tell me what d pain that i felt when he broke my hearts?
Just wana knw ur opinion ^^


If you are afraid of being bruised or hurt...
Just stick to RentALove.
Returnable anytime. No Questions asked.
There is NO guarantee in Life. You take your chances and if you are lucky, you get second chances as well.

spirito_gustamante

Hell !!
Yeah,u r ryt on ur point.
Anyway,i may fl in love wth dis rent love as well

hELLnoi

spirito_gustamante wrote:

Hell !!
Yeah,u r ryt on ur point.
Anyway,i may fl in love wth dis rent love as well


No u cant fl in love wth dis rentAlove. its only till u get hit by the real thg. thn hELL will freeze over.
Come wat may...

Wilson

If you stick on rent a love, are you sure the rented person aint get hurt? :rolleyes:

hELLnoi wrote:
spirito_gustamante wrote:
wjwoodward wrote:

True love, really true love is always given; and it is given freely.
Love is not ours to have, we can't take it, we can't borrow it or buy or sell it. You can't give it back if you don't want it anymore, so best think about it before you ever accept it.

Therefore, once given it no longer is ours so we can't take it back either.


Your words are always beautiful.. U are rite.. But tell me what d pain that i felt when he broke my hearts?
Just wana knw ur opinion ^^


If you are afraid of being bruised or hurt...
Just stick to RentALove.
Returnable anytime. No Questions asked.
There is NO guarantee in Life. You take your chances and if you are lucky, you get second chances as well.

spirito_gustamante

Make a deal wth him .. So both must b mad people too who looks for rented love .. Lol!! Its just an opinion ^^

Fred

spirito_gustamante wrote:
mas fred wrote:

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)


hahhaha... dun dare to do it !! n never !!


I used to be Christian and, sad as it may be, that was my favourite commandment to smash.

spirito_gustamante

mas fred wrote:
spirito_gustamante wrote:
mas fred wrote:

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)


hahhaha... dun dare to do it !! n never !!


I used to be Christian and, sad as it may be, that was my favourite commandment to smash.


m a Christian .. Bt duno wht u mean lol

hELLnoi

wilson_derry wrote:

If you stick on rent a love, are you sure the rented person aint get hurt? :rolleyes:


Rented Love not Person. There are no guarantees in life. Unless you make a deal with me, Mr Devil.
I will guarantee you ...

hELLnoi

spirito_gustamante wrote:
mas fred wrote:
spirito_gustamante wrote:


hahhaha... dun dare to do it !! n never !!


I used to be Christian and, sad as it may be, that was my favourite commandment to smash.


m a Christian .. Bt duno wht u mean lol


He was nearly sheep kebab!
When he can only have ONE, he had MANY. Now that he can have FOUR(at any ONE time), he is stuck with ONE.
Guess you know why he is bouncing lidat!!!

Dita Mignonesia

spirito_gustamante wrote:
Dita Mignonesia wrote:

And how to give back the love? And how do you keep someone's love when the person is already gone? I don't get this sorry. :unsure


hikzz.. its actualy just cross my mind.. so dun too much bother with my crazy mind ^^

to give back his love means to let him go .. to keep his love means loving him til u die ^^

maybe...


no worries, this is a catchy thread.I  enjoy scrolling and reading the comments too hihihi.

Anyway,I agree with "letting him go" part- when its not worth to keep him then DO IT. I just don't think love we gave or received is returnable and so with the time,the memories and if he is not an A* then you can love him till you die but if he is, just mentally kill him on your head unless we are playing a roll in love movie.:D

RoniFPVGT

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person

HaileyinHongKong

Should this be in the English language section?

mas fred wrote:

I used to be Christian and, sad as it may be, that was my favourite commandment to smash.


I can see you breaking #2.

sugarplum79

Primadonna wrote:

Love is in many shapes, you can not only feel love for a person but for things or subjects as well: music, art,nculture, history, a good cup coffee or tea etc.

Love is a feeling, emotion so you can not lent it or take it back, it will die when this emotion is not cherished.


i am agree love is emotion and will die when it not cherish ... but mostly love between women and man attach with ego so when u give love u want them give back the same things ... different case with mother who love her children she will like giving and not ask back or love like what u say to culture , art etc

hELLnoi

RoniFPVGT wrote:

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person


There is a group of people who are permitted to lie to their love ones to keep peace in the marriage! The stronger can kill if the weaker  in the name of honor if the weaker sex dares to do the same.

Dita Mignonesia

hELLnoi wrote:
RoniFPVGT wrote:

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person


There is a group of people who are permitted to lie to their love ones to keep peace in the marriage! The stronger can kill if the weaker  in the name of honor if the weaker sex dares to do the same.


umm is that a confession, HeLLnoi? I hope not! :D

hELLnoi

Dita Mignonesia wrote:
hELLnoi wrote:
RoniFPVGT wrote:

Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person


There is a group of people who are permitted to lie to their love ones to keep peace in the marriage! The stronger can kill if the weaker  in the name of honor if the weaker sex dares to do the same.


umm is that a confession, HeLLnoi? I hope not! :D


ohhhh why not?
Afterall i am suppose to be responsible for anything bad in this world...
just another lie wont make any difference

princess sandra

its called love if any take and give..

spirito_gustamante

dear dita,

you are right .. kill him mentally if we cant be together. if he hurts me, it will be easier. but how if we are forced to separate coz our families do not agree with our relationship? and we both respect our maom's advise...

fiuuuuuuuuh ... just wishing a small world that only be us ^^

*kak Dita, curcol neh aku ceritanya hahaha

JasfurJQ

Love can never be given or borrowed, it can never be taken by force nor asked by please. A special feeling to someone you cared, respected and accepting everything in his/her life. Love can never be taught, it's like a seed it grow in perfect time and in prefect place........:)

Wilson

when someone loves, he or she should love unconditionally expecting nothing in return. because when you expect something, then it may not be Love. :)

James

Hi spirito_gustamante,

The hurt you feal is because you gave your heart, freely and without conditions attached. When we love, sometimes we love somebody who doesn't appreciate that love or give love the same value that we do and in the end they break our heart because we loved the wrong person.

Some people, sad to say, carry that scar and the pain forever. They are the ones who live through other people. They feel they only exist because of the one they love. They have no self image and little self-esteem. It's sad because everyone has great value and each of us is unique.

There are others, hopefully you will be one of the, that hurt for a while and then they bounce back. They find their self image and self esteem again and they realize that THEY ARE WORTHY OF BEING LOVED. They pass through the pain and go on to love again and be loved.

The difference between the two types is that the second type sees the break-up and pain as a learning process that creates personal growth. The first type sees it as a curse or punishment that they must have somehow deserved. They don't realize they are wrong.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

spirito_gustamante

wjwoodward wrote:

Hi spirito_gustamante,

The hurt you feal is because you gave your heart, freely and without conditions attached. When we love, sometimes we love somebody who doesn't appreciate that love or give love the same value that we do and in the end they break our heart because we loved the wrong person.

Some people, sad to say, carry that scar and the pain forever. They are the ones who live through other people. They feel they only exist because of the one they love. They have no self image and little self-esteem. It's sad because everyone has great value and each of us is unique.

There are others, hopefully you will be one of the, that hurt for a while and then they bounce back. They find their self image and self esteem again and they realize that THEY ARE WORTHY OF BEING LOVED. They pass through the pain and go on to love again and be loved.

The difference between the two types is that the second type sees the break-up and pain as a learning process that creates personal growth. The first type sees it as a curse or punishment that they must have somehow deserved. They don't realize they are wrong.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team


dear james,
tnx for your reply.n its very encouraging.tnx a lot.. I like "bouncing" ^^

Wilson

All i know: love is about giving someone right to hurt you...

The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you, you just got to find the ones worth suffering for...

spirito_gustamante

Reza Kneefel wrote:

All i know: love is about giving someone right to hurt you...

The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you, you just got to find the ones worth suffering for...


hahaha
all opinion r acepted well n i like ur sarcasm ^^

Wilson

@ Spirito: Its not sarcasm, its called Truth ! hehehe
reality bites, so what ? hehehe...

Cheers

Fred

HaileyinHongKong wrote:
mas fred wrote:

If it's with another man's wife, just borrowed for 30 minutes. :)


30 minutes?  Somehow I knew you were a Quick Draw McGraw.


The nearest hotel is 13 minutes away.
A round trip and partial undressing takes 29 minutes, 38 seconds.

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